A definition? Or definitions? Love has too many meanings which makes it hard to understand. It can be said as a strong attachment with strong emotional feelings or it may be a virtue representing kindness and compassion. Looking at religious point of view, we can say it is a humble feeling that a human being has towards his/her life that gives the strength to manage one's life.
You see, there are many kind of definitions that we can conclude from the word love but one thing to be remembered is that the act of getting it and having it is the same and will always be, no matter what kind of love you have in mind.
Feeling "love" is not like going to a party and get laid. NO. Getting laid is easy. Drink drunk dance dunk !! But love, it takes time. Well sometimes it doesn't but it is something different. We read too many books about love and we watched too many movies with love titles but do we even know how does it feel to fall in love? LOL if you don't then basically you're not in love or its not there yet.
Love is something that only a heart can feel not your mind. Your mind is able to give you the meaning in facts but not feeling it. The feeling is something that you cannot explain. It is an unconditional feeling that no one in this world can tell how and why they had it. Once you're in love, trust me, you need to get it cuz if you don't then you will suffer. To make it simple, don't let it go. Even if you have to fly 30 000 miles to get it, do it.
But still in between that motion of getting it, you have side effects:
- can't sleep
-can't eat
-can't do shit.
The only thing you will be thinking of is how to get that love. Trying to be the loveman.
Getting worst then you will have to fight it. Or you're done !!
This is not some movies you watch on screen since those movies were written and have endings. Yours? Not yet. You have to make one.
One thing about love, its soft as f***. So don't push it but don't wait too long or it'll fade. Love is like slow dancing , its like you trying to turn on your dance partner. Yeah!! Like that. Red roses on the table won't do nothing. That is just some tradition that we've been doing for thousand of years. Every love out there has its own unique way. So you gotta find it. It sounds easy but trust me, its hard.
Not all the love you feel can be written in your heart. Sometimes there is only one wing working, the other not. If you ask me what to do if that happens then I would tell you this ; a friend of mine said once before, " Bro, fuck her !! ". Another friend of mine said this before as well, " Ade banyak lagi bunga dekat luar tu, ko petik jer, tak best ko buang". Basically, it means that we will always be looking for the best but in between that findings, we will have to get rid of the old ones or there will be no place for the best. So don't kill yourself, or jump off the third floor, just chill and get high. Okay, if you're religious enough, be close to God and from him you will get the path.
Love sucks but its good.
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