Saturday, August 14, 2010

Mars Vs. Venus


There is no meaning actually on why people put the word versus in the middle of Mars and Venus. What is the point of differentiating a female from a male. Yes, its right to say that physical appearances differ from each other, but its that how we look at differences in our lives? We say men have better ability to think, to perform. Are we sure with the statement we made ?
Everywhere we go, discriminations after another can be seen towards females. Not saying that males are no better than them, we are, but if we look at females way of thinking and what they can do in abstract things, it would probably be the same plus, some of them even have better expectations to shine.

When a father gave up in taking care of his child and ran off, a woman stayed a pampered the infant and use whatever she has to make the child grow well. Who's better? The clothing we wear, fashion shows, designs in and out, who do you think have more creativity in creating them? Now who's better? Just look at all those therapists around the world. If to be compared, I can say that women are holding more of it than men.

I understand that men do have their potentials as well. Not just saying, we have better things in life that we can achieve but putting females out of the league is just going to make us none other than cowards. I believe that, if we show a little more respect to women, than the world would be a better place to live. Me myself, sometimes I don't think that I'm tough enough to compete especially when it comes to feelings. Its in our nature believing that reaching an agreement and taking control is always within a man's circle but what is the point of having an agreement without having people liking it and controlling something with no respect from the others?

Just look at the phase when a woman becomes a leader. BONDING is important. You can see that all she does is try to bond with the members of her community. We all know that women usually have this " all must be perfect " disease which people think it is a bad case in life. Are you sure? Don't you think this disease should be gotten by each and every human being out there in this world? Women tend to do things slow but somehow, it turns out nice and well done. That's not the end of it, they even have the chance to create a bigger sense of connection between them and their colleagues.

See !! There are much more things to learn in this life. Men should learn from women and women should do the same thing. All I've given are the things that women can do. For men, well you guys know better.

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